Combining
relationship with studies first has to deal with a person individually.
To some
people it could be a great distraction while to some others it could be a
source of motivation.
If you find
yourself as being able to combine relationship and studies then it is good for
you but if you cannot(distraction) then its advisable you focus on one first
before the other.
Balancing relationship and studies is not
an easy task as both require a maximum amount of time and devotion. One can
only succeed in balancing the two perfectly if you are in a relationship with a
person who understands your passion for knowledge.
Here are a
few tips for those who see the need in combining
a relationship with studies
1) IS IT WORTH THE TROUBLE? : This is a
first step to note. Studies are stressful and so are relationships. So if your
relationship is not going to be a serious one the better option is to flee or
walk away.
2) COMBINED STUDIES: For effectiveness,
one step to managing relationships and studies is to spend time together
studying. Combined studies gives room to proper understanding and will help you
get your work done.
3) TIME MANAGEMENT: You should set your
time straight. There should be time for studies and time for partying and having
fun. You and your partner should both set out goals for yourselves so there
will be effective management and less misappropriation of time and resources.
4) SELF DISCIPLINE: You need to coach yourself
in self-discipline when balancing relationships and school. Daydreaming,
fantasies and lots of fun can be quite enemies to your studies.
75% of students who are in school all seem to be in relationships and
majority of them notwithstanding come out with good results. So therefore
combining relationships with studies is not much of a task if your personality
can be able to handle it
Above all, a final note for students is for them to know the real reasons
why they are in school and should always strive hard for success in other for
them to make themselves and parents proud.
The key to success is in your ability to sacrifice greatly.
#CONCERNEDCITIZEN
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